Pam Fletcher

FLETCHER, Margaret Pamela (nee Barnett)   Our friend, Pam, loved by many, left us all on 18^th November 2025 after a tragic accident.   Much loved by her husband, Ross, sister, Noreen and brother in law Geoff, in-laws, Sheryl and Robert, Craig and Pauline, and nieces Kelsey and Janelle.  Special thanks to the exceptional  staff of Wellington ICU for Pam’s care.   Pam’s  life will be celebrated at the Lychgate Chapel, Johnsonville on Tuesday 25 November at 1 pm

Tributes

Patricia Reesby

I am so very sorry to hear of Pam’s passing. I met her through Scottish country dancing clubs in Tawa and Johnsonville, and saw her more recently at a local stroke club lunch at the Porirua Club and gatherings at Zampelles cafe in Johnsonville. I found Pam to be a lovely person and all my sympathies are with you.

Wendy Oliver

Dear Ross,
I was so deeply saddened to hear of the tragic loss of your beloved wife. She was a truly lovely woman warm, gracious, and someone who always left people feeling a little brighter for having been in her company. Her absence will be felt by so many.

I know how long you were together and how devoted you were to one another. There are no words that can ease the heartbreak of losing a lifelong partner, but I hope the love you shared and the memories you hold bring you some comfort in time.

Dad would want you to know that he is thinking of you, and he sends his love. Your friendship has meant a great deal to him over the years, and to our whole family.

Please know that I am holding you close in my thoughts during this incredibly difficult time.

With deepest sympathy,
Wendy

Mary Death

Dear Mr Fletcher
I met you on the 14th of November in the ICU waiting room. I was the volunteer on reception. I was so touched when you told me of Pam’s story and her amazing recovery from her illness of 18 months ago. Your love for her was palpable and I felt so honoured to hear you talk of how you met- your blind date, your 47 years of marriage and of how she was now coming back from the operating theatre to ICU to go into battle again. Sadly her recovery was not to be and I just wanted to send you my sympathy and let you know I am thinking of you. Take care and bless you.
Mary Death

Richard Prankerd

It was a privilege to be an onlooker at a wonderful remembrance of the life of a truly loved and admired lady.

Margaret Corfield

Dear Ross,
Thankyou for allowing me to share in your farewell to Pam. It was a privilege to have been a friend when we were doing our nurse training many years ago.
Best wishes Margaret.

Alan Wright

Pam was always gracious to work with on SeniorNet matters.