Pamela Mary Urquhart-Hay

Peacefully at Rita Angus, Wellington, on 21, July 2026, dearly loved wife of the late Donald Urquhart-Hay; much loved mother of Simon, Charlotte, and Timothy; loved mother-in-law of Marcus, Mary, and Gabriella; loving grandmother of William Tom, Harry, Georgia, Jack, Joshua, and Toby, loved grandmother-in-law of Lisa, Jamie, Vanessa, and Lynn; and loving great-grandmother of Archie, Ollie, Evie, Sophie, Lucia, Ted, and Scottie. Thanks to the Rita Angus Staff, Susan, and Stephaine.

TRIBUTES

Kristin Arthur

Sending love to the family—especially Simon,Mary & Charlotte..
Pam became a friend in the early days in Wgtn in late “70’s.—we would meet with our respective dogs! a group of us…often ending in chaos!
Over the years, with Donald & Tony, lots of Car involvements-!–became good mates- esp living opposite Donald’s Mother, Beryl..
-then later, Pam joined Semper Opera Tours with Penny & Dick Corballis,..we travelled all over Europe..
such great memories of amazing & fun times together..
Pam always looked a million dollars., fiercely independent—such a hard role for her to relinquish….
Cared for by her wonderful family….sadly am unable to be at her service—but will watch it on line…
She will be zooming round on Cloud 9 now wth Donald!
Love to you all,,, Kristin.